8:30 – 9:00 Registration

9:00 – 10:25 Introduce ourselves

Apples & Oranges
First marriages are “apples” – subsequent marriages are “oranges.” In this presentation basic fundamental differences between the two are explored. The stepfamily forms backwards from the biological family. Without recognizing & preparing for these differences, the stepfamily – and those working with them – can get set up for major problems.

Bio-Force Meet the Weakest Link
The most unpredictable element in stepfamily formation is relationship development. This presentation explores & literally draws out, how individuals bond & relationships develop in the stepfamily. This is also contrasted with the biological family.

10:25 – 10:35 Break

10:35 – 12:00 Step-Discipline
The parenting problems presented here are universal to stepfamilies where one or both bring children. Learning the important principles of stepparenting & discipline will enhance the chance for remarriage success & couple satisfaction.

Money & Stuff
Every marriage has to handle money & stuff. With a remarriage this is amplified and is the #2 reason for the break up of second or subsequent marriages, underlying all other stepfamily problems. This is one of the least discussed areas before any marriage takes place. This time we come with assets, debts, children, lack of trust (we got burned), as well as different styles of spending and saving. Different models of financial management, along with the Taylor's personal experiences are presented.

12:00 – 12:45 Lunch

12:45 – 1:30 What About Us
One of the major questions stepcouples ask is, “What about us?” Not only the stepfamily but the couple relationship also forms backwards. The issues facing the developing remarried couple relationship can be confusing & emotionally charged. Among the concepts presented are “primary and foundational,” “reclaiming the territory” & the “tasks of remarriage.”

1:30 – 2:15 Stages Pt 1
The Taylor's will be showing two presentations from their VHS/DVD Series, “Designing Dynamic Stepfamilies: Bringing the Pieces to Peace.” Many remarried couples are surprised to find the stepfamily jungle a confusing & sometimes dangerous place to hang out. How to survive (by identifying the emotional landmines) & win (by dealing with them productively) is presented. This is filled with the life experiences of stepcouples & stepkids as they relate their travels through "World Peace," "Diplomatic Breakdown," and "Battle Engagement" of the development cycle.

2:15 – 2:25 Break

2:25 – 3:15 Stages Pt 2
The drama continues as the principles are outlined and illustrated by stepcouples & stepkids sharing their continuing journey through “Infrastructure Rebuilding" and landing in the "Post War Era." This ends the workshop on a pinnacle of hope. For more information regarding the Series: www.DesigningDynamicStepfamilies.com

3:15 – 4:00 Evaluations